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⚠️ A Little Disclaimer First

The following answers are meant with a wink and not too seriously. ❤️

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We hope you understand our sense of humor and won’t take any of our cheeky comments personally. 😇

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Trigger Warning: If you don’t have a sense of humor, simply throw this Q&A list into ChatGPT or another AI chat and ask:

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“Please summarize this in a friendly way and make it less cheeky.” 😉

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Problem solved. 😂

👗 What should I wear?

For the ladies:

🤍 White?

Absolutely not. Seriously. We only want to see one bride on this day – and she’s already taken.

❤️ Red?

If you want to give everyone the impression that you’ve slept with the groom: feel free! At least we’ll have something to talk about. 😉

🖤 Black?

Just a quick reminder: This is not a funeral. We’re getting married. 🥂

✨ So what should I wear?

Something festive, elegant and preferably a little fancy. Make an effort – you’ll be immortalized in photos, after all.

 

For the gentlemen:

🖤 Black suit?

Absolutely fine. Someone has to look serious, after all.

🤍 White shirt?

Of course! Just don’t suddenly show up in a full white suit. 😉

❤️ Red?

If you absolutely want to look like you have a very personal history with the groom: feel free. 😂

✨ So what should I wear?

Festive, elegant and appropriate for the occasion.

⏰ When should I arrive?

Please be on time. “I’m almost there” is not an accepted time zone.

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Please plan to arrive no later than 4:30 PM, as previously communicated. 😉

🚪 What happens if I’m late?

You can of course still come in. But please do so quietly and try not to make yourself the center of attention. 😉

📱 Can I take photos during the ceremony?

We have professional photographers and videographers – so you don’t need to try getting the perfect shot with your phone from the third row.

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During the ceremony, the rule is therefore:

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Phone away, eyes up and tissues ready. ❤️

📸 Can I post pictures from the wedding?

Basically: Yes, absolutely!

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However, please wait with pictures of us until we have posted something ourselves.

 

We’d like to be faster than the family WhatsApp group at least once

🕺 Do I have to dance?

No. But please be aware that “I don’t dance” will no longer be accepted as an excuse after midnight. By then, you should have had enough to drink anyway. 😉

🎁 What should I give as a gift?

Having you there is, of course, the greatest gift. ❤️

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If you would still like to give us something, we would be very happy about a contribution towards our next big adventure.

🍽️ Will there be enough food?

We’ve made sure that nobody has to go home hungry.

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If someone still manages to starve, please submit a written complaint. It will, of course, not be processed. 😌

🥂 Will there be alcohol?

We’re having a wedding.

Of course there will be alcohol.

The more interesting question is: How much can your dancing handle?

🚗 I’m driving – can I still drink?

No. A sober driver is sexy. A drunk driver is simply an expensive taxi problem.

🌱 What if I can’t eat certain foods?

We provided a deadline several times by which you were supposed to let us know about any dietary requirements.

If you did: Perfect. Everything is fine. 😊

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If you didn’t, unfortunately, I don’t know what I’m supposed to do for you on the day of the wedding.

So hopefully, this won’t be a problem for Lorenzo and me – but rather for you. 😇

👶 Are children welcome?

Only the ones you registered with us in advance. 😉

➕ Can I bring a plus-one?

If your invitation included a plus-one: absolutely!

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Provided, of course, that you told us about them in advance and we were able to add them to the guest list.

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Otherwise, getting enough food for them might become slightly difficult. 😉

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If they weren’t registered: please don’t spontaneously recruit someone from your Tinder archive. 😇

🐶 Can I bring my dog?

We love dogs. ❤️

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If your dog handles loud noises well, doesn’t panic and isn’t likely to run wild through the venue, we don’t see a problem.

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We simply don’t know whether someone might have a dog allergy or be afraid of dogs. If someone approaches you because of this, we kindly ask you to be considerate.

🏨 Where can I stay overnight?

We’ve put together some accommodation recommendations on our website, all within approximately 10–15 minutes of the venue.

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If you decided to book somewhere further away:

Have fun getting home. 😇

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We’ve also shared the contact details of taxi companies on the information sheet we sent you. So you can easily organize everything in advance – especially in case you decide to get absolutely smashed in the evening and would rather not drive yourselves home. 😉

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In short: We’ve given you the options. What you do with them is entirely up to you. 🥂

🚗 Is there parking?

Yes.

🆘 Who can I contact if I have questions on the wedding day?

Under no circumstances the bride or groom.

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Our only responsibilities that day are to get married and try not to forget anything we actually need for the wedding.

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Please contact:

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Melanie Kuß
📱 +49 163 9253017 (WhatsApp)

Julia Kuß
📱 +49 163 9253018 (WhatsApp)

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Both speak German and English.

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If you speak neither German nor English, simply message them in Italian. 🇮🇹

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They are, of course, so incredibly competent that they can translate it – and will even reply to you in Italian. 😉

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Please refrain from calling in this case.

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There is a reasonable chance that you will both enthusiastically talk at each other for several minutes while neither person understands a single word. 😂

❤️ What is the most important rule?

Come with a good mood, celebrate with us, eat well, drink responsibly and dance like nobody is watching.

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Even though, of course, everyone is watching. And taking pictures.

In short:

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🥂 Have fun. The rest will work itself out. ❤️

Свадьба Лоренцо и Ванессы, Италия, 8 сентября 2026 года.

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